So I finally settled on two things:

1. That I lived a great life for the Lord and love all.

2. That I was a great singer.

I would like to be remembered for courage and love. I'm afraid neither comes easily to me, so if I grow in either I'll be remembered for God's work in me.

1. that loved the Lord
2. that I had an epic death

That I followed in Jesus' footsteps, and that I always put others before myself.

1) That I was a sincere Christian--

2) Being a world-champion archer never seen without a cloak and that never made any typos. Aaaand having an epic death too would be pretty nice, as Smaug and Hobbit both noted.

In my family? Being a decent husband and a decent father in a somewhat bohemic fashion, and not betraying my own to shrinks or child welfare.

In general? For opposing abortion to the point of supporting teen marriages, and for supporting Young Earth Creationism and Catholicism to the point of opposing Heliocentrism.

Was it cheating to make a disambiguation for "family/in general"?

Being someone who showed Jesus to others.

Kindness and caring to others.

creativity, faith, compassion, music, and family
Oops! I can't count